BE A BETTER PERSON

We are hold together by, according to me, an unbreakable bond of love, affection, and care. A relationship where we judge the people through their behaviour, thoughts, and idea towards life BUT............

We meet different people throughout of our life. I met different people as I moved from small town to mediocre town to metro city, came across people of different mentality, culture, their idea towards life, towards others, and experienced a lot of things and willing to see more. I noticed one thing, very unusual and my mind brimmed with amazement. I was surprised with some people’s behaviour and their idea. People make pre-conception about you and look for an impertinent questions like from where do you live? Which brand’s cloth you wear? Whether you have car or not? If you have, then which company? Moreover, then categorised you in their bizarre defined group and behave accordingly. If you are affluent, drive a nice car, they will talk to you nicely, flatter you, and invite you in every party. Concerning the area of girl, Most of the girl, beautiful or good looking use this as a weapon, irrespective of character, mentality come closer to you, expect you to pay money everywhere, an expansive gift. If you belong to middle class family, the people make a distance from you, try to avoid you, ignore you. Once, I came to know about a girl who ditched her boyfriend because she knew that he is not affluent irrespective how nice he is. How cheap they are who pretends this. This is sheer idiocy and shows a total lack of self esteem. I, often heard,’ hey look, ‘he wears LEE jeans, he must be rich. Even after this, they say, ‘I belong to rich family, live in advanced society and modern mentality. They don’t they are the real poor people. Most of our societies are wrapped with these non sensual things and make a stupid way to judge the people, which show nothing except lack of self esteem. Apart from this, I even met persons with full of self esteem. I met a person who is affluent but never show and is a better person. I admire such person.

People often proud the things, which are temporary. Men over his wealth and girls over her beauty. Surprisingly, both are not ever lasting. Beauty lasts till age of 35 and nothing can be said about the fickle money.

Let me give an example, very common example. In our society, the girl’s parents look for a rich and good natured bridegroom. Rich because so that their daughter could live a comfortable life, good natured because their daughter could live a happy and purposeful life. For a moment think of reversal of this, if a person is not good nature. What will happen? After few months, or a two three year, relationship became burden, full of fights, shouting and results into divorce. Here, money couldn’t do anything. What mattered is the nature, a good person.

According to me, an affluent person with zero moral and social values is equal to big ZERO.

I never say money is not important but the most important is the nature, behavior. A sea always looks great, beautiful but it is river that quenches your thirst.
Sometime, a small people with small income live happily rather than a family with high income. I also read about the person whose income is high enough but living a poor life.

It is the identity of a person how he/she treats others. All great men or women are great human being. First, we all are human being, and then we are rich and poor. Its nature which make us respectable, if you have both then you are admirable.

“ Resolve to be tender with young, compassionate with aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and wrong. Because some times in our life we would have been all of these ourselves.”
- Llyod Shearer- 1986.