HUM TUM 2

We can’t live with them and we can’t live without them. The unsolved mystery so far has been gripping us for a long time, for thousands years. The girl, an unsolved enigma. Even scientists are hopeless in this matter. I have a simple question. Scientists have explained the behavior of atom, the smallest particles which we are unable to see but could not able to explain the behavior of a girl. They predicted the behavior of every animal, even of insects. But they have failed in this regard. Why? Are they not so capable? Reason is simple.

Girls reshapes our life, nowadays, they are also deforming our life. We all know the consequences but we maneuver behind them, chase and follow them. We stand hours and hours where we are not supposed to be like below her house, at the end of street of her home, at her tuition classes, if we see them at market luckily, we visit the same place, for a glimpse of her. We stare at her to catch every single smile fluttered across her at her pinkish lips. Even we have annals of every smile and their giggles. But we don’t remember what our mom said to bring some household stuff. Who cares! When they reply with a coquettish smile, we are gone, dreaming starts to an extreme extent. Their phone numbers are on the tongue, even sometimes, it get dialed if we try for home. And college or school attendance gets suddenly increased but when our mothers say to go, we make excuses. Dressing sense according to the girl taste gets changed. If they like funky T- shirts, Jeans..Some of us go to shop and buy lots of garish clothes. If she likes simple, then some of us start wearing plain shirt and pants, not even flare pants. Even hair style gets improved. Some of us even start visiting gent’s beauty parlor, in order to take lead in the race of looking handsome and smart. We start bathing daily, buy lots of different fragrances perfumes, deodorant and powder. Some of us even start using some fairness cream, mostly fair and lovely. I think we contribute more than 50% sell of it. For this sake, at least they should give a little preference to us also in add. Some of us fight for her, if some among us ogle at her girlfriend, however, he hasn’t talked to her once, and without letting her knows and gets hospitalized. A good example of irony. Her birthdays come and some of us buy very costly gift to impress her, to bribe her which might give a ray of hope to accept proposal. We wait impatiently for Valentine’s Day, in a bleak hope, it is belief that girls generally never rejects any proposals as furiously as they do on the others day. Some of us propose them holding a good, fresh, sweet smelling rose in hand and say stammering, ‘ I love you’. Even they don’t know after how much times, they have selected this rose. Some lucky one’s proposal gets accepted. As it seems that America accepts India’s proposal to avoid and forbid the use of nuclear arms. Some unfortunate gets rejected. Some of us try for next options. Nevertheless, scenes and scenarios change.

Drama starts. We have to mug up the birthdays dates, not only of her but dates of every single family members of her, even she has any pet also. Where are you? Come soon in five minutes at city mall. We raced even we are eating, look for a bike or car. Look for money in wallet. I am not feeling sleepy, talk to me. We wash our face, if we feel sleepy, no matter whether it is summer or winter to talk. Why don’t you wear like my friends boyfriends do? Why you don’t drive car like my friend’s boyfriend drive? You are not romantic as my friend’s boyfriends are? We start cladding ourselves in the same way, she expects. Our attire change. We start driving fast. We start reading books, some romantic novel, look for some ladies magazines like meri saheli or vanita to get tips to become romantic as they , sometimes, publish special issue like teenager love or how to make relationship romantic and stronger. After some day, you are not like as you used to be, romantic, simple and sweet. You are changed now. You are not like before, at the time proposing me. You were simple, sweet but now you are totally different. This type of minor fights results into break up. The collection of deodorant, perfume seems laughing at us, making fun of us. Some of us feels down hearted and shatter emotionally. Some of us try for any other relationship.

After looking and experiencing the different perspective, whatever we say, the bottom line is that we cannot live with them and never wish to live without them.