Few days back, one of my old friends sent me a message that quite intrigued me which I also felt sometime, so I decided to write this blog. The message reads:
This generation boys and girls get into love because of misunderstanding… and break up when they start understanding each other….
Quite true! We, boys, observe our increased heart beats on seeing girls, the most lovely and enigmatic creature at age between 17-20 years. We become suave, highly elegant in every field, whether it is dressing sense, behavior, and subtle rhythm of talk, everything we change, which is never our original identity, to impress the girl. In fact girls like this, so we do this. For example, if I wear a plain shirt, pants with simple hair style, not a single girl is going to look at me. That’s true! We make them laugh, do all those things which we never wish or think like wishing birthday exactly at stroke of 12, giving a expensive gift because she will like it, love it and give me the value and understand me that how much we care for them and how much we have love for them. BUT that’s not true. We do this because we want a girlfriend, with big eyes, delicate face, black eyebrows angled like a seagull wings with dark shiny black hairs. We don’t deny the fact that we only do this for girlfriend though some of us really become innocent, sweet, and intelligent after seeing a girl and changed themselves for rest of life.
When we, boys, come in new avatar to impress or girls come to impress boys, they get into so called love. Why? Because of only this upper coating of misunderstanding. . But most of us when get into love, in the following days, Instead of strengthen our love, it weakens because we both couldn’t act longer and our true personality start coming out. Instead of passing I love you, we start stating that you have changed, no more like before, elegant, sweet, lovely, handsome, beautiful and innocent. You don’t care for me, don’t love like before, and don’t talk till late night, no more gifts. This is because we misjudged our opposite partners. When it comes to come out of illusions which get formed due to misunderstanding, and to understand our need, necessity, and others factor to make the same relationship happier and purposeful, we expect the same dreams and lies. We start blaming each other and instead of making the dreams, a lovely relationship shatters because of disparity in misunderstanding and reality.
My only opinion of this whole is that love is the most beautiful feeling of the world. It cares for two hearts, and fills both hearts with zeal of happiness. When things get around, don’t blame each other because it’s the perfect time to understand our partners. Everything is fickle, emotions, boyfriend attitude, and girlfriend’s nature. Please don’t think that my love has changed because before thinking this, think of situation that is constantly changing and no one can’t act same in the entire situation. The only thing is to understand situation, care for other’s feelings, need and condition. Don’t look for the other relationship. It’s really pathetic and heart wrenching!!!!!!
