Few days back, one of my old friends sent me a message that quite intrigued me which I also felt sometime, so I decided to write this blog. The message reads:
This generation boys and girls get into love because of misunderstanding… and break up when they start understanding each other….
Quite true! We, boys, observe our increased heart beats on seeing girls, the most lovely and enigmatic creature at age between 17-20 years. We become suave, highly elegant in every field, whether it is dressing sense, behavior, and subtle rhythm of talk, everything we change, which is never our original identity, to impress the girl. In fact girls like this, so we do this. For example, if I wear a plain shirt, pants with simple hair style, not a single girl is going to look at me. That’s true! We make them laugh, do all those things which we never wish or think like wishing birthday exactly at stroke of 12, giving a expensive gift because she will like it, love it and give me the value and understand me that how much we care for them and how much we have love for them. BUT that’s not true. We do this because we want a girlfriend, with big eyes, delicate face, black eyebrows angled like a seagull wings with dark shiny black hairs. We don’t deny the fact that we only do this for girlfriend though some of us really become innocent, sweet, and intelligent after seeing a girl and changed themselves for rest of life.
When we, boys, come in new avatar to impress or girls come to impress boys, they get into so called love. Why? Because of only this upper coating of misunderstanding. . But most of us when get into love, in the following days, Instead of strengthen our love, it weakens because we both couldn’t act longer and our true personality start coming out. Instead of passing I love you, we start stating that you have changed, no more like before, elegant, sweet, lovely, handsome, beautiful and innocent. You don’t care for me, don’t love like before, and don’t talk till late night, no more gifts. This is because we misjudged our opposite partners. When it comes to come out of illusions which get formed due to misunderstanding, and to understand our need, necessity, and others factor to make the same relationship happier and purposeful, we expect the same dreams and lies. We start blaming each other and instead of making the dreams, a lovely relationship shatters because of disparity in misunderstanding and reality.
My only opinion of this whole is that love is the most beautiful feeling of the world. It cares for two hearts, and fills both hearts with zeal of happiness. When things get around, don’t blame each other because it’s the perfect time to understand our partners. Everything is fickle, emotions, boyfriend attitude, and girlfriend’s nature. Please don’t think that my love has changed because before thinking this, think of situation that is constantly changing and no one can’t act same in the entire situation. The only thing is to understand situation, care for other’s feelings, need and condition. Don’t look for the other relationship. It’s really pathetic and heart wrenching!!!!!!
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
AN ODYSSEY TO HAPPINESS
It was around 11 pm when I went to roof of hostel and was around 11:45 pm when I began writing this blog.
i was standing alone in the darkest part of roof, with one leg was on the parapet, listening the soft music of Taylor swift "you belong with me", and had a bowl full of Maggie in my hand , I was looking somewhere distant in the sky. Where? Why? I didn't even know. But I was looking constantly into sky, looking at myriad of blinking stars. Soon, the music player stopped playing with a peep sound and then I realized my presence and asked a normal question to myself, 'what are you doing sanjeev here?' thinking! Is it so? Then why mind is so steady?' realizing this, I felt little bothered. I realized that at that moment, my mind was empty which I never liked. I like thinking so I always go to roof and think deeply about my past, my present and my future. I think about my passion, my family and my surroundings. It gives me a clear idea of my life, my ideas towards life which relieves me. I began thinking. It seemed very awkward writing this that I began thinking. Thinking is a natural thing. Aah! And to my surprise, my mind picked a very unusual thing. "am i going to get 45 marks out 50 tomorrow in LIC subject?" then my mind swayed to new thoughts. "Was I able to respond properly to my entire friend who looked for my help? Was I able to give the best opinion of their solutions?" it again swayed to new thought which bothered me lot. "Am I going to crack CAT?" Soon, a lots of thoughts crawled in mind, a negative thoughts enough to weaken me and little after, I drowned into gloominess.
Now, I had two options: first, I could go down and sleep to remove layer of frustration which surrounded me. Other, i could fight back to my idea and prove myself that whatever I was thinking was wrong.
I jerked and scolded myself for my stupid thinking, walked the little and laughed moderately because laughing gives me energy and make me feel better. I said to something to myself and challenged myself. "Sanjeev, go and sleep. Better idea for you. Your mind has been corrupted and dull like others. If you are smart enough, then fight back!" I always liked challenges and laughed at myself more. Then I positioned myself in a better position and closed my mind for a while and began thinking from beginning. "This is not what you wished! You think what you want in your life.' listen to inner voice and realized what it is saying. I concentrated and restored myself to listen. 'It was saying you are going to get more than 45 in LIC. It was saying you gave your best opinion to your friend. It was saying you will do what you wish." I rejoiced with a new energy. AAH! Maggie over. It was to Time go down.
It is easy to lose yourself in labyrinth of negative thoughts and tough to walk into narrow road of positive thoughts but once you enter into that narrow path of thoughts, soon you will begin to realize that this path is wider, straight, and full of happiness and energy which I always feel. Great happiness lies in realizing dreams. so do whatever keeps you happy, don't care of how silly it is? sing, dance, laugh, study, do whatever which make you smile. say loudly it's my life and i love my life which is full of dreams, happiness and laughs!
i was standing alone in the darkest part of roof, with one leg was on the parapet, listening the soft music of Taylor swift "you belong with me", and had a bowl full of Maggie in my hand , I was looking somewhere distant in the sky. Where? Why? I didn't even know. But I was looking constantly into sky, looking at myriad of blinking stars. Soon, the music player stopped playing with a peep sound and then I realized my presence and asked a normal question to myself, 'what are you doing sanjeev here?' thinking! Is it so? Then why mind is so steady?' realizing this, I felt little bothered. I realized that at that moment, my mind was empty which I never liked. I like thinking so I always go to roof and think deeply about my past, my present and my future. I think about my passion, my family and my surroundings. It gives me a clear idea of my life, my ideas towards life which relieves me. I began thinking. It seemed very awkward writing this that I began thinking. Thinking is a natural thing. Aah! And to my surprise, my mind picked a very unusual thing. "am i going to get 45 marks out 50 tomorrow in LIC subject?" then my mind swayed to new thoughts. "Was I able to respond properly to my entire friend who looked for my help? Was I able to give the best opinion of their solutions?" it again swayed to new thought which bothered me lot. "Am I going to crack CAT?" Soon, a lots of thoughts crawled in mind, a negative thoughts enough to weaken me and little after, I drowned into gloominess.
Now, I had two options: first, I could go down and sleep to remove layer of frustration which surrounded me. Other, i could fight back to my idea and prove myself that whatever I was thinking was wrong.
I jerked and scolded myself for my stupid thinking, walked the little and laughed moderately because laughing gives me energy and make me feel better. I said to something to myself and challenged myself. "Sanjeev, go and sleep. Better idea for you. Your mind has been corrupted and dull like others. If you are smart enough, then fight back!" I always liked challenges and laughed at myself more. Then I positioned myself in a better position and closed my mind for a while and began thinking from beginning. "This is not what you wished! You think what you want in your life.' listen to inner voice and realized what it is saying. I concentrated and restored myself to listen. 'It was saying you are going to get more than 45 in LIC. It was saying you gave your best opinion to your friend. It was saying you will do what you wish." I rejoiced with a new energy. AAH! Maggie over. It was to Time go down.
It is easy to lose yourself in labyrinth of negative thoughts and tough to walk into narrow road of positive thoughts but once you enter into that narrow path of thoughts, soon you will begin to realize that this path is wider, straight, and full of happiness and energy which I always feel. Great happiness lies in realizing dreams. so do whatever keeps you happy, don't care of how silly it is? sing, dance, laugh, study, do whatever which make you smile. say loudly it's my life and i love my life which is full of dreams, happiness and laughs!
Saturday, October 16, 2010
HAPPY TO HELP YOU!
This blog that I am writing because of only one thing which was in my mind for months that I don’t even know.
We are living a life, most fickle and enigmatic thing. It gets tangled whenever we try to correct it resulting in frustration and anger. And after that everything, one by one thing start going against our wish and we break down, emotionally, mentally and physically that leads to aimless and hopeless life which we never intend. Every one of us has a dream which we wish to accomplish but some one of us don’t realize that dream. Why? Problems. Different types of problems which come to across in day to day life. Once Albert Einstein said, “If you don’t face any problems, it means you have not done anything.” I like this and experienced it. So I am writing this blog. There are three types of people in this world. First, one who know what to achieve and how to achieve their dreams and achieve dreams in spite of any problems. Second, one who know his dream and in fact, they act but problems lead them to failure. Third, one never cares for their problems and dreams. I care for second category of people. Let me tell me share one incidence. One year back, I was in a trouble which led me into deep frustrations. I was not able to see my future. I was shattered living a life full of agony. It looked that everything had been destroyed. One thing which I could to see was my aim for life. But I didn’t know at that time how I was going to do this. I might have done something in my life good so that I found a friend who helped me lot. His suggestions, his words removed the layer of illusion which had covered me and he took out me into new world where I saw my way to ambition, where I realized how to achieve my dreams. His support gave me new aspect to live my life and boost my confidence. Now, I am leaving a purposeful life.
That’s correct! We are enshrouded with lots of problems. Problem could be anything like financial problems, family problems, study problems, love problems and many more. We are teenager and for the first time, in this time, our hearts beat for opposite sex. Some are lucky that their love life longs last and but others shatters emotionally after break up and forget that there is another life even after this and lead to very miserable life which they never dream off. Financial problems also make our lead to frustrations. In other words, any types of problem lead to new horizon, horizon of failure. I never wish that what I suffered or I did mistakes in my life, others do the same. I was being helped by someone that realized me that what would happen if I couldn’t get my friend at time what the other thinks same at time of problems.
To help others is one of the noblest works of this world. We all know that we are not born with same fate. That’s why we live different life. In the last few months, I encountered so many problems of my friends and I dealt each problem diligently. My entire friend thanked for my help. But I don’t think that I did something great. I was simply doing what a normal and good person should do. It give me an immense pleasure. I believe that we are most intelligent animal of this world and we must help each other to make this world happier and lovely. When my friends thanked for my help, then I thought to stretch my arm for others. Hello friends, I would like to hear from you and love to help you in the best possible ways. Please help me to assist you. Contact me: sanjeev.ranjan91@gmail.com. Share your problems to me And I will come back to you soon to encourage you and will help you to realize your dream, to explore happiness. I will feel great pleasure for this. thanks.
We are living a life, most fickle and enigmatic thing. It gets tangled whenever we try to correct it resulting in frustration and anger. And after that everything, one by one thing start going against our wish and we break down, emotionally, mentally and physically that leads to aimless and hopeless life which we never intend. Every one of us has a dream which we wish to accomplish but some one of us don’t realize that dream. Why? Problems. Different types of problems which come to across in day to day life. Once Albert Einstein said, “If you don’t face any problems, it means you have not done anything.” I like this and experienced it. So I am writing this blog. There are three types of people in this world. First, one who know what to achieve and how to achieve their dreams and achieve dreams in spite of any problems. Second, one who know his dream and in fact, they act but problems lead them to failure. Third, one never cares for their problems and dreams. I care for second category of people. Let me tell me share one incidence. One year back, I was in a trouble which led me into deep frustrations. I was not able to see my future. I was shattered living a life full of agony. It looked that everything had been destroyed. One thing which I could to see was my aim for life. But I didn’t know at that time how I was going to do this. I might have done something in my life good so that I found a friend who helped me lot. His suggestions, his words removed the layer of illusion which had covered me and he took out me into new world where I saw my way to ambition, where I realized how to achieve my dreams. His support gave me new aspect to live my life and boost my confidence. Now, I am leaving a purposeful life.
That’s correct! We are enshrouded with lots of problems. Problem could be anything like financial problems, family problems, study problems, love problems and many more. We are teenager and for the first time, in this time, our hearts beat for opposite sex. Some are lucky that their love life longs last and but others shatters emotionally after break up and forget that there is another life even after this and lead to very miserable life which they never dream off. Financial problems also make our lead to frustrations. In other words, any types of problem lead to new horizon, horizon of failure. I never wish that what I suffered or I did mistakes in my life, others do the same. I was being helped by someone that realized me that what would happen if I couldn’t get my friend at time what the other thinks same at time of problems.
To help others is one of the noblest works of this world. We all know that we are not born with same fate. That’s why we live different life. In the last few months, I encountered so many problems of my friends and I dealt each problem diligently. My entire friend thanked for my help. But I don’t think that I did something great. I was simply doing what a normal and good person should do. It give me an immense pleasure. I believe that we are most intelligent animal of this world and we must help each other to make this world happier and lovely. When my friends thanked for my help, then I thought to stretch my arm for others. Hello friends, I would like to hear from you and love to help you in the best possible ways. Please help me to assist you. Contact me: sanjeev.ranjan91@gmail.com. Share your problems to me And I will come back to you soon to encourage you and will help you to realize your dream, to explore happiness. I will feel great pleasure for this. thanks.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
HUM TUM 2
We can’t live with them and we can’t live without them. The unsolved mystery so far has been gripping us for a long time, for thousands years. The girl, an unsolved enigma. Even scientists are hopeless in this matter. I have a simple question. Scientists have explained the behavior of atom, the smallest particles which we are unable to see but could not able to explain the behavior of a girl. They predicted the behavior of every animal, even of insects. But they have failed in this regard. Why? Are they not so capable? Reason is simple.
Girls reshapes our life, nowadays, they are also deforming our life. We all know the consequences but we maneuver behind them, chase and follow them. We stand hours and hours where we are not supposed to be like below her house, at the end of street of her home, at her tuition classes, if we see them at market luckily, we visit the same place, for a glimpse of her. We stare at her to catch every single smile fluttered across her at her pinkish lips. Even we have annals of every smile and their giggles. But we don’t remember what our mom said to bring some household stuff. Who cares! When they reply with a coquettish smile, we are gone, dreaming starts to an extreme extent. Their phone numbers are on the tongue, even sometimes, it get dialed if we try for home. And college or school attendance gets suddenly increased but when our mothers say to go, we make excuses. Dressing sense according to the girl taste gets changed. If they like funky T- shirts, Jeans..Some of us go to shop and buy lots of garish clothes. If she likes simple, then some of us start wearing plain shirt and pants, not even flare pants. Even hair style gets improved. Some of us even start visiting gent’s beauty parlor, in order to take lead in the race of looking handsome and smart. We start bathing daily, buy lots of different fragrances perfumes, deodorant and powder. Some of us even start using some fairness cream, mostly fair and lovely. I think we contribute more than 50% sell of it. For this sake, at least they should give a little preference to us also in add. Some of us fight for her, if some among us ogle at her girlfriend, however, he hasn’t talked to her once, and without letting her knows and gets hospitalized. A good example of irony. Her birthdays come and some of us buy very costly gift to impress her, to bribe her which might give a ray of hope to accept proposal. We wait impatiently for Valentine’s Day, in a bleak hope, it is belief that girls generally never rejects any proposals as furiously as they do on the others day. Some of us propose them holding a good, fresh, sweet smelling rose in hand and say stammering, ‘ I love you’. Even they don’t know after how much times, they have selected this rose. Some lucky one’s proposal gets accepted. As it seems that America accepts India’s proposal to avoid and forbid the use of nuclear arms. Some unfortunate gets rejected. Some of us try for next options. Nevertheless, scenes and scenarios change.
Drama starts. We have to mug up the birthdays dates, not only of her but dates of every single family members of her, even she has any pet also. Where are you? Come soon in five minutes at city mall. We raced even we are eating, look for a bike or car. Look for money in wallet. I am not feeling sleepy, talk to me. We wash our face, if we feel sleepy, no matter whether it is summer or winter to talk. Why don’t you wear like my friends boyfriends do? Why you don’t drive car like my friend’s boyfriend drive? You are not romantic as my friend’s boyfriends are? We start cladding ourselves in the same way, she expects. Our attire change. We start driving fast. We start reading books, some romantic novel, look for some ladies magazines like meri saheli or vanita to get tips to become romantic as they , sometimes, publish special issue like teenager love or how to make relationship romantic and stronger. After some day, you are not like as you used to be, romantic, simple and sweet. You are changed now. You are not like before, at the time proposing me. You were simple, sweet but now you are totally different. This type of minor fights results into break up. The collection of deodorant, perfume seems laughing at us, making fun of us. Some of us feels down hearted and shatter emotionally. Some of us try for any other relationship.
After looking and experiencing the different perspective, whatever we say, the bottom line is that we cannot live with them and never wish to live without them.
Girls reshapes our life, nowadays, they are also deforming our life. We all know the consequences but we maneuver behind them, chase and follow them. We stand hours and hours where we are not supposed to be like below her house, at the end of street of her home, at her tuition classes, if we see them at market luckily, we visit the same place, for a glimpse of her. We stare at her to catch every single smile fluttered across her at her pinkish lips. Even we have annals of every smile and their giggles. But we don’t remember what our mom said to bring some household stuff. Who cares! When they reply with a coquettish smile, we are gone, dreaming starts to an extreme extent. Their phone numbers are on the tongue, even sometimes, it get dialed if we try for home. And college or school attendance gets suddenly increased but when our mothers say to go, we make excuses. Dressing sense according to the girl taste gets changed. If they like funky T- shirts, Jeans..Some of us go to shop and buy lots of garish clothes. If she likes simple, then some of us start wearing plain shirt and pants, not even flare pants. Even hair style gets improved. Some of us even start visiting gent’s beauty parlor, in order to take lead in the race of looking handsome and smart. We start bathing daily, buy lots of different fragrances perfumes, deodorant and powder. Some of us even start using some fairness cream, mostly fair and lovely. I think we contribute more than 50% sell of it. For this sake, at least they should give a little preference to us also in add. Some of us fight for her, if some among us ogle at her girlfriend, however, he hasn’t talked to her once, and without letting her knows and gets hospitalized. A good example of irony. Her birthdays come and some of us buy very costly gift to impress her, to bribe her which might give a ray of hope to accept proposal. We wait impatiently for Valentine’s Day, in a bleak hope, it is belief that girls generally never rejects any proposals as furiously as they do on the others day. Some of us propose them holding a good, fresh, sweet smelling rose in hand and say stammering, ‘ I love you’. Even they don’t know after how much times, they have selected this rose. Some lucky one’s proposal gets accepted. As it seems that America accepts India’s proposal to avoid and forbid the use of nuclear arms. Some unfortunate gets rejected. Some of us try for next options. Nevertheless, scenes and scenarios change.
Drama starts. We have to mug up the birthdays dates, not only of her but dates of every single family members of her, even she has any pet also. Where are you? Come soon in five minutes at city mall. We raced even we are eating, look for a bike or car. Look for money in wallet. I am not feeling sleepy, talk to me. We wash our face, if we feel sleepy, no matter whether it is summer or winter to talk. Why don’t you wear like my friends boyfriends do? Why you don’t drive car like my friend’s boyfriend drive? You are not romantic as my friend’s boyfriends are? We start cladding ourselves in the same way, she expects. Our attire change. We start driving fast. We start reading books, some romantic novel, look for some ladies magazines like meri saheli or vanita to get tips to become romantic as they , sometimes, publish special issue like teenager love or how to make relationship romantic and stronger. After some day, you are not like as you used to be, romantic, simple and sweet. You are changed now. You are not like before, at the time proposing me. You were simple, sweet but now you are totally different. This type of minor fights results into break up. The collection of deodorant, perfume seems laughing at us, making fun of us. Some of us feels down hearted and shatter emotionally. Some of us try for any other relationship.
After looking and experiencing the different perspective, whatever we say, the bottom line is that we cannot live with them and never wish to live without them.
Friday, July 9, 2010
AMAZING REALITY, TRUTH AND YOUTHS
This time, I made curry, little bit salty, spicy, and bitter to realize the truth, which we, most of youth is carrying, fortunately, or unfortunately, I don’t know. Some, who like to have good curry which I made this time, might sense the bitterness and try to think it twice, thrice…… I promised to my friends to never make such curry but something happened, which made to think and write over this.
It happened to me, few months ago, at that time, I didn’t take it seriously but I again saw this. I don’t know why it always happens with me. I was chatting to a friend, an acquaintance. After some light stuff, I simply asked about her study. As I am always fascinated in every field, whether it is law, medical, fashion or engineering. She is doing law. Ram jeth malani, kapil sibbal are the best lawyer of India, when I was in 10th class, my father told this. I, sometime think about this. What quality good lawyers possess? Nothing can be a good source to know about this other than to ask from a law student. I just asked, ‘so, you might have learn how to turn the table against anyone, or to disapprove a person in front of you? The best quality of lawyer, which differentiates the bad one or good one?’ she said, ‘sanjeev, can’t we talk something normal stuff?’ first I couldn’t understand, what happened? I asked, ‘did I ask something wrong?’ ‘yeah, it is boring. And you are boring me.’ I became silent and couldn’t keep any questions forward after that as I was unable to differentiate the questions into boring or normal?
I observed the same in my college. Not with me always, but someone who are conscious about the recent development in an engineering field and look for a good discussion. Same reply, boring questions. In fact, one of my good friends told me that he had chat with his friend, on asking that his further plan. He found it boring.
Summer holidays started, ended too. I thought to discuss this to my friend, a very good friend, currently in IIT. We used to spend time together talking, discussing, topics covering from movies, politics, sports, even sometimes serious topics too. I knew that he would not find this question boring. A good quality of person to listen and reply in way that you will not feel bad or curse yourself that why did you ask this question? I took other way to ask this. I asked to him, 'when you and your friends are talking, suppose after dinner and some nonsense stuff, whether to make the fun of others or something comedy. Suddenly, you remember that you have to finish an assignment and you get stuck while in program. Even, you have to submit it tomorrow first class. You are seeing that all your friends are busy in talking. But you ask to friend as he knows about subject, what he would say?’ He said, ‘considering this situation …’ I punctuated, ‘let me put two options in front of you. 1) Would he say, ‘what yaar, don’t bore me. Can’t you enjoy? See, someone is making joke, enjoy the life. 2) He will come with you, will solve your problem.’
He said, ‘why would he say the first options? For us, it is never boring to ask a question; in fact it is related to our subject. Sometimes, he might say that he will come later and solve the problem.’
‘Why?’ I asked with curiosity. ‘Why means? We are going to become engineer? If someone starts finding problem in his/her own subject, then what is meaning of studying? What the hell is he/she doing in this college if asking something related to your academics bore him/her. If someone says like this, he/she should be in Arts College. Nothing can be more pathetic than this.’
Exactly, I also want to say the same. Discussing something, related to academics, if bore anyone, it is directly inferred that he/she has no interest in that area. It is the total waste of Indian resource. Such people make speech, India, one day will become super power, richest country, I don’t know their more dialogues. Just think, a country where our youths find their own academics subject boring is going to make such adjectives apt which they used to put, great or super power.
It happened to me, few months ago, at that time, I didn’t take it seriously but I again saw this. I don’t know why it always happens with me. I was chatting to a friend, an acquaintance. After some light stuff, I simply asked about her study. As I am always fascinated in every field, whether it is law, medical, fashion or engineering. She is doing law. Ram jeth malani, kapil sibbal are the best lawyer of India, when I was in 10th class, my father told this. I, sometime think about this. What quality good lawyers possess? Nothing can be a good source to know about this other than to ask from a law student. I just asked, ‘so, you might have learn how to turn the table against anyone, or to disapprove a person in front of you? The best quality of lawyer, which differentiates the bad one or good one?’ she said, ‘sanjeev, can’t we talk something normal stuff?’ first I couldn’t understand, what happened? I asked, ‘did I ask something wrong?’ ‘yeah, it is boring. And you are boring me.’ I became silent and couldn’t keep any questions forward after that as I was unable to differentiate the questions into boring or normal?
I observed the same in my college. Not with me always, but someone who are conscious about the recent development in an engineering field and look for a good discussion. Same reply, boring questions. In fact, one of my good friends told me that he had chat with his friend, on asking that his further plan. He found it boring.
Summer holidays started, ended too. I thought to discuss this to my friend, a very good friend, currently in IIT. We used to spend time together talking, discussing, topics covering from movies, politics, sports, even sometimes serious topics too. I knew that he would not find this question boring. A good quality of person to listen and reply in way that you will not feel bad or curse yourself that why did you ask this question? I took other way to ask this. I asked to him, 'when you and your friends are talking, suppose after dinner and some nonsense stuff, whether to make the fun of others or something comedy. Suddenly, you remember that you have to finish an assignment and you get stuck while in program. Even, you have to submit it tomorrow first class. You are seeing that all your friends are busy in talking. But you ask to friend as he knows about subject, what he would say?’ He said, ‘considering this situation …’ I punctuated, ‘let me put two options in front of you. 1) Would he say, ‘what yaar, don’t bore me. Can’t you enjoy? See, someone is making joke, enjoy the life. 2) He will come with you, will solve your problem.’
He said, ‘why would he say the first options? For us, it is never boring to ask a question; in fact it is related to our subject. Sometimes, he might say that he will come later and solve the problem.’
‘Why?’ I asked with curiosity. ‘Why means? We are going to become engineer? If someone starts finding problem in his/her own subject, then what is meaning of studying? What the hell is he/she doing in this college if asking something related to your academics bore him/her. If someone says like this, he/she should be in Arts College. Nothing can be more pathetic than this.’
Exactly, I also want to say the same. Discussing something, related to academics, if bore anyone, it is directly inferred that he/she has no interest in that area. It is the total waste of Indian resource. Such people make speech, India, one day will become super power, richest country, I don’t know their more dialogues. Just think, a country where our youths find their own academics subject boring is going to make such adjectives apt which they used to put, great or super power.
Friday, June 25, 2010
THIS, THAT, THESE,THOSE AND MOONSOON
Summer holiday is going on. Season of Mango, heat waves and romantic monsoon. But I didn’t know this monsoon would accomplice something horrible other than rain and relief. Last day, I met one of my old friend, might be we are meeting after nearly two years. I suspected we would meet this time, as we are in different college, so different holiday time. Actually what happened, I was returning to home, after buying some food stuff, at present, my parents have given me home ministry. On the way, I saw him.
‘Hello, it has been so long that we are meeting,’ I said excitedly as I always meet others excitedly, this time, I became overexcited. ‘How are you? Fine,’ He said. ‘Fine’, I couldn’t differentiate whether he was asking about me or telling about himself. I asked, quizzically whether you are asking me or telling me. ‘ I am asking you.’ He said. After some old reminiscences, we switched to college stuff. I asked, ‘so, how is your college? You must be enjoying. You are in ….. Modern city. Malls and modernization alike me.’ He started which made me to realize my mistakes that I shouldn’t ask this question. ‘You know my college is that….my College is this…..my college is full of….. you know…….our teachers are you know… you know in my college what happened.. I still don’t know what happened. He again resumed, ‘you know in my college professors are so qualified, so qualified….’ Perhaps, more than professors of Harvard or Stanford.’ I interrupted as I saw him becoming overexcited as he got noble prize. ‘Shit, what sanjeev, what are you thinking? Noble prize???? After looking his and his college level, might be noble is less valuable than this and noble laureates, if they come to know about this, would curse themselves that what they are not in that college and might be, some noble laureates would commit suicide.’ I thought. ‘No yaar.’ He replied. I thought he might stop now and we would talk on any other topic. However, he didn’t stop but I, definitely stopped thinking when he said again, ‘you know how large my campus is….very large....’ ‘He might have forgotten that scientist community has specified some measurement units,’ I whispered and said, ‘larger than BHU.’ ‘No yaar.’ Still his tone didn’t show any lack of excitement but I showed my limit of impatience. My excited face had become dimmed and expressionless. Someone said to me, a few months ago, that I don’t have patience and you should learn how to be patient. I cursed him and thought, looking this, it is better to remain impatient. His talk made me to think and I doubt, am I also in college, an engineering college? I checked my id card which relieved me. Optimism was shifting to pessimism. Before it could shift, to my surprise, he had stopped now. I counted, he said 30 times this, those, that, these and not a single complete sentences. Thanks for the revision of grammar.
After some time, I left and came back home. I slept at time, nearly at 12 after reading a novel. Suddenly, I woke up after sometime and squeaked, ‘BUT YAAR, I AM ALSO IN COLLEGE. WHAT ABOUT MY COLLEGE?’
I came across such people who always make such pompous and bombastic speech. They think that they are successfully and articulately making impressions on others. And try to fool others. Big mouth and shallow ideas and thinking. A fleeting moment of cheap speech and loss of credibility for lifetime. One time, I was seriously thinking over this, to make a speech which left you wandering over the statement, an incomplete statement, to think what they are trying to say. Mind puzzling. Ooooo. Also, James bond or Sherlock Holmes wouldn’t find out what they meant by these, those, you know. My conclusion was blank. I never understood the reason for doing so.
Well, enjoy monsoon and delicious mango also. Have a great holiday.
‘Hello, it has been so long that we are meeting,’ I said excitedly as I always meet others excitedly, this time, I became overexcited. ‘How are you? Fine,’ He said. ‘Fine’, I couldn’t differentiate whether he was asking about me or telling about himself. I asked, quizzically whether you are asking me or telling me. ‘ I am asking you.’ He said. After some old reminiscences, we switched to college stuff. I asked, ‘so, how is your college? You must be enjoying. You are in ….. Modern city. Malls and modernization alike me.’ He started which made me to realize my mistakes that I shouldn’t ask this question. ‘You know my college is that….my College is this…..my college is full of….. you know…….our teachers are you know… you know in my college what happened.. I still don’t know what happened. He again resumed, ‘you know in my college professors are so qualified, so qualified….’ Perhaps, more than professors of Harvard or Stanford.’ I interrupted as I saw him becoming overexcited as he got noble prize. ‘Shit, what sanjeev, what are you thinking? Noble prize???? After looking his and his college level, might be noble is less valuable than this and noble laureates, if they come to know about this, would curse themselves that what they are not in that college and might be, some noble laureates would commit suicide.’ I thought. ‘No yaar.’ He replied. I thought he might stop now and we would talk on any other topic. However, he didn’t stop but I, definitely stopped thinking when he said again, ‘you know how large my campus is….very large....’ ‘He might have forgotten that scientist community has specified some measurement units,’ I whispered and said, ‘larger than BHU.’ ‘No yaar.’ Still his tone didn’t show any lack of excitement but I showed my limit of impatience. My excited face had become dimmed and expressionless. Someone said to me, a few months ago, that I don’t have patience and you should learn how to be patient. I cursed him and thought, looking this, it is better to remain impatient. His talk made me to think and I doubt, am I also in college, an engineering college? I checked my id card which relieved me. Optimism was shifting to pessimism. Before it could shift, to my surprise, he had stopped now. I counted, he said 30 times this, those, that, these and not a single complete sentences. Thanks for the revision of grammar.
After some time, I left and came back home. I slept at time, nearly at 12 after reading a novel. Suddenly, I woke up after sometime and squeaked, ‘BUT YAAR, I AM ALSO IN COLLEGE. WHAT ABOUT MY COLLEGE?’
I came across such people who always make such pompous and bombastic speech. They think that they are successfully and articulately making impressions on others. And try to fool others. Big mouth and shallow ideas and thinking. A fleeting moment of cheap speech and loss of credibility for lifetime. One time, I was seriously thinking over this, to make a speech which left you wandering over the statement, an incomplete statement, to think what they are trying to say. Mind puzzling. Ooooo. Also, James bond or Sherlock Holmes wouldn’t find out what they meant by these, those, you know. My conclusion was blank. I never understood the reason for doing so.
Well, enjoy monsoon and delicious mango also. Have a great holiday.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
THE SECRET
Have you ever thought that why the 96% of whole wealth of the world is conglomerated to mere 6% of the whole population? Have you ever thought why do we know only few names across the whole world? Why a man with same mental ability becomes wiser than we? Moreover, we stand there where we are for many years. Once I wondered over these questions and found a book namely, ‘The Secret’. All these questions have an answer, a secret behind that these that Is being hidden deliberately from the peoples over centuries of years. A powerful secret is behind this. I read this and found every answer for these questions.
In last semester, I was not doing well in my examinations. I was annoyed and felt exasperation. My good relationships were in turmoil. I felt a swirling wave of tension. Then my friend suggested reading this book. It was new to me. I read this over, and over again. I recollected and restored myself as the powerful secret got imbued in my veins, energizing my blood with a powerful concept of secret.
All wish something; we dream something, may be of a job with good salary, may be want to become a famous personality. However, few of us could manage to do this. Why? Why? The common answer is hard working. According to me, this answer is not completely correct. Sometimes, a hard working also fails. Again why? According to me, success is about thinking positive along with hard work, success is about thinking your aim, your dream passionately. Why? I have many reasons for this. We are like a TV transmission tower. The whole world follows a rule – the law of attraction rule. When we think something, we emit a thought; thoughts are like magnet and have frequency. Thoughts revolve around the universe, catch the thoughts of same frequency, and send it back to us. So, it depends on us that which type of thoughts of frequency we are sending out. Then Accordingly, the universe and the surroundings start changing. What we think now is creating our future life. We create our life with our thoughts. What we think about the most or focus on the most, is what will appear as our life.
“You want to become aware of your thoughts and choose your thoughts carefully and you want to have fun with this because you are the master of your life. You are the Michelangelo of your own life. The David you are sculpting is you.”
Our mind is agile, with lot of mobility. It is impossible to have good thoughts and bad thoughts at the same time. In addition, it is impossible to let stop entering negative thoughts in our mind. When we have negative thoughts, it means we are emitting negatives frequency and we are going to get back same. The best part is, stops thinking, and replaces it with a positive thinking immediately.
“If you are feeling good, then you are creating future that’s on the track with your desires. If you are feeling bad, you are creating futures that’s off the track with your desires. As you go about your day, the law of attraction in every second. Everything we think and feel is creating your future. If you are worried in fear, then you are bringing more of that into your life throughout the day”
Marci Shimoff.
Instead of focusing onto loose weight, focus on your perfect weight. In addition, the universe will rearrange to make it happen to you. It once happened to me.
If something is going bad around you, it isn’t surrounding, it is you who is responsible for this. You want to change something, change yourself, change your thoughts, and change your frequency because:
“All that we are a result of what we have thought”
Lord Buddha.
In last semester, I was not doing well in my examinations. I was annoyed and felt exasperation. My good relationships were in turmoil. I felt a swirling wave of tension. Then my friend suggested reading this book. It was new to me. I read this over, and over again. I recollected and restored myself as the powerful secret got imbued in my veins, energizing my blood with a powerful concept of secret.
All wish something; we dream something, may be of a job with good salary, may be want to become a famous personality. However, few of us could manage to do this. Why? Why? The common answer is hard working. According to me, this answer is not completely correct. Sometimes, a hard working also fails. Again why? According to me, success is about thinking positive along with hard work, success is about thinking your aim, your dream passionately. Why? I have many reasons for this. We are like a TV transmission tower. The whole world follows a rule – the law of attraction rule. When we think something, we emit a thought; thoughts are like magnet and have frequency. Thoughts revolve around the universe, catch the thoughts of same frequency, and send it back to us. So, it depends on us that which type of thoughts of frequency we are sending out. Then Accordingly, the universe and the surroundings start changing. What we think now is creating our future life. We create our life with our thoughts. What we think about the most or focus on the most, is what will appear as our life.
“You want to become aware of your thoughts and choose your thoughts carefully and you want to have fun with this because you are the master of your life. You are the Michelangelo of your own life. The David you are sculpting is you.”
Our mind is agile, with lot of mobility. It is impossible to have good thoughts and bad thoughts at the same time. In addition, it is impossible to let stop entering negative thoughts in our mind. When we have negative thoughts, it means we are emitting negatives frequency and we are going to get back same. The best part is, stops thinking, and replaces it with a positive thinking immediately.
“If you are feeling good, then you are creating future that’s on the track with your desires. If you are feeling bad, you are creating futures that’s off the track with your desires. As you go about your day, the law of attraction in every second. Everything we think and feel is creating your future. If you are worried in fear, then you are bringing more of that into your life throughout the day”
Marci Shimoff.
Instead of focusing onto loose weight, focus on your perfect weight. In addition, the universe will rearrange to make it happen to you. It once happened to me.
If something is going bad around you, it isn’t surrounding, it is you who is responsible for this. You want to change something, change yourself, change your thoughts, and change your frequency because:
“All that we are a result of what we have thought”
Lord Buddha.
Monday, April 12, 2010
CONTROVERSY AND M F HUSSAIN
The controversy regarding the acceptance of citizenship of Qatar by M F Hussein, a noted painter of India, was very much in news recently. First, the controversy aroused out when he made the naked paintings of Hindu’s goddess in 1970 came into lime light in 1995 and he forced himself to self exiled as more than 900 cases are registered in different courts across the country for hurting religious sentiments of Hindus. The controversy again aroused out as he accepted the Qatar nationality and Indian government couldn’t do anything to protect such a notable painter. He earned a precarious living as an artist. The government also kept their silence over this.
Concerning all the matter, there are two ways to see this whole issue. First, I ask what would have been the fate of such artists if he had born in the county like Saudi Arabia, or any other gulf countries. What happened to Salman Rushdie, a world class author, for his novel, the satanic verses, and a people from a country declared the fatwa against him. He had to hide all those years and that novel caused lives of 37 people across the whole world. If talk about this, then nothing much happened to M F Hussein. I accept that everyone has freedom of expression. Nevertheless, they should also know that freedom is okay till you are not violating the freedom of others. I apply same to M F Hussein. As an artist, he is free to paint anything but he cannot hurt the sentiments of other’s. I must say, he never showed his love for his own religion.
Second, If we talk about his paintings. According to me, as an artist he has every right to paint whatever he wants to paint. I asked what he did wrong by painting the naked portrait of Hindu goddess. He is an artist and this is his way to earn a bread and roti. In fact, India claims to be democratic country ready to absorb the very idea. Then what happened now? The whole controversy aroused out because he does belong to some other religion. According to me, he painted what our country is showing from centuries. If I talk about the others religion
s, there is no such scriptures, no monuments which shows any exotic paintings, exotic descriptions of their god. However, in India, there are lots of temples, like Khajuraho, and many others in the south India, which has the naked paintings sculptures on their wall. He painted what India was in their ancient times. He revealed the ancient heritage the India through his art, i.e. is paintings. Religion and creative freedom are once again on a collision course!After looking on these points, I must say that his paintings in his own frame of reference were correct but he hasn’t any right to hurt the sentiments of Hindu’s. Even he didn’t apologize for this. He said that he feels precarious while in India. This is a shame for the government that he is unable to protect the heritage of country. But what I must say that He should apologize for this publicly.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
HUM - TUM
Long ago, God made this world and took some rest. Then God made boys, he became so happy, so he took some more rest. Then he did the greatest mistake and he made girls and after that neither the God could take rest neither we - the boys. In addition, the world was divided into two groups, HUM means boys, and TUM means girls – a famous dialogue from the Bollywood movie HUM TUM.
Last year, I visited Bokaro for two reasons. First and most important, I had to collect my passing certificate and the security money, and to meet my old friends, friends of greatest ever in term of fun, 12 C. we were in touch through g talk or by phone. As per plan, I went and collected the document in the morning but i couldn’t get the money; I told all of them to meet in the noon, as I had to catch the train at about 8: pm. They all planned for a get- together party but unfortunately only six of us could manage to come and gathered in the city park of the city, four boys and two girls. We all got engaged in the some college stuff like, whether anyone has a girlfriend or not? How many proposals did we get? I also got a comment that I had build up my body, some biceps. I noticed myself when I heard this. Really, people are getting blind day by day. After this stupid and funny stuff, we ordered Chowmin, as we came in a restaurant situated amid of the park. I was sitting in front of a girl. the Order came. So, either of us had to serve the Chow min, I offered her to serve but she insisted me to do this. I didn’t say anything, as I always feel shy in front a girl, more than a girl would , In fact I uttered only 10 -30 words during the whole so called party. I made to slip down the Chow min into her plate and paused for a moment, ‘It would be less,’ I thought, so , I put down some more Chow min on the plate. ‘ Sanjeev, it s too much. I don’t want to be fat. You know how oily this is? How would you know? You are a boy.’ She blurted out, it seemed as though her boyfriend fled away with my girlfriend. I was amazed, moreover you can say, bemused over what she means by ‘You are boy, you wouldn’t understand.’ It means she is a girl and girls have some natural power to measure oil contents in any food stuff, even they could stop eating plain rice in the name of fat and calories. Health doctor must consult to this type of naturally gifted girl. I am still confused on what I did, which made her to blurt that, it seemed that I did some unavoidable mistake, and I deserved a punishment. After this, we finished our lunch; the Demon i mean the waiter came with the bill and sledded. All giggles, jocular tone, jokes stopped suddenly. This time Newton’s third law was proved, equal and opposite reaction law. Giggle turned into silence and in amazed look and all we knew what our eyes and strained face wanted to convey, ‘WHO WILL PAY THE BILL?’ One of my friends already on seeing the bill told that he hadn’t a single buck. Three of us squinted. A boy sitting beside me whispered in my ear,’ why should only we pay? Why not girls?’ A good question of why do boys have to empty their pockets for years. Why do we always suffer from these problems, a major threat to boys, bigger than global warning, because in global warming, all of us would die but in this only we, the boys are dying. All the authority all over world should conduct a meeting over this instead of global warming, surprisingly even China will not protest over this topic. At last, the three of us paid the bill.
Personally i think that this should be stopped. When it comes to give a seat in the train, bus or when it comes to stand in the queue whether it is ticket reservation counter or Mec donald burger counter, the rule says me first. However, when it comes to pay the money then, the same rule turns upside down and says ‘you first’. All rules say conditions apply. Even here, But this wrong. I still couldn’t understand how ladies first system fails when it comes to pay money. On this, I spoke to my friends ( two girl friends , ohh, don’t go on the apparent meaning of this word, I mean to say a friend who is girl). One of them supported my point and said that she always offers money at least of her share whether it is restaurant or anything. Thanks to her...... something is better than nothing. the Other friend refused. She said that this is universally accepted. Therefore, the boy will pay the money and on the other hand, it is unmannered to ask money from a girl.
Is it unmannered to ask money from a girl? In addition, it is mannered to empty down the wallet of a boy, even he is spending money of his parent like her. My point is that in this age, we all live on our parent’s money, and parents send money to both of us, so, it is unmannered to say only to boys to spend money. The mannerism comes when we all share the money. It will look unmannered when a boy has a job, earns money, and expects money from the other side. I think the he could pay the whole bill or whatever.
Monday, March 15, 2010
BE A BETTER PERSON
We are hold together by, according to me, an unbreakable bond of love, affection, and care. A relationship where we judge the people through their behaviour, thoughts, and idea towards life BUT............
We meet different people throughout of our life. I met different people as I moved from small town to mediocre town to metro city, came across people of different mentality, culture, their idea towards life, towards others, and experienced a lot of things and willing to see more. I noticed one thing, very unusual and my mind brimmed with amazement. I was surprised with some people’s behaviour and their idea. People make pre-conception about you and look for an impertinent questions like from where do you live? Which brand’s cloth you wear? Whether you have car or not? If you have, then which company? Moreover, then categorised you in their bizarre defined group and behave accordingly. If you are affluent, drive a nice car, they will talk to you nicely, flatter you, and invite you in every party. Concerning the area of girl, Most of the girl, beautiful or good looking use this as a weapon, irrespective of character, mentality come closer to you, expect you to pay money everywhere, an expansive gift. If you belong to middle class family, the people make a distance from you, try to avoid you, ignore you. Once, I came to know about a girl who ditched her boyfriend because she knew that he is not affluent irrespective how nice he is. How cheap they are who pretends this. This is sheer idiocy and shows a total lack of self esteem. I, often heard,’ hey look, ‘he wears LEE jeans, he must be rich. Even after this, they say, ‘I belong to rich family, live in advanced society and modern mentality. They don’t they are the real poor people. Most of our societies are wrapped with these non sensual things and make a stupid way to judge the people, which show nothing except lack of self esteem. Apart from this, I even met persons with full of self esteem. I met a person who is affluent but never show and is a better person. I admire such person.
People often proud the things, which are temporary. Men over his wealth and girls over her beauty. Surprisingly, both are not ever lasting. Beauty lasts till age of 35 and nothing can be said about the fickle money.
Let me give an example, very common example. In our society, the girl’s parents look for a rich and good natured bridegroom. Rich because so that their daughter could live a comfortable life, good natured because their daughter could live a happy and purposeful life. For a moment think of reversal of this, if a person is not good nature. What will happen? After few months, or a two three year, relationship became burden, full of fights, shouting and results into divorce. Here, money couldn’t do anything. What mattered is the nature, a good person.
According to me, an affluent person with zero moral and social values is equal to big ZERO.
I never say money is not important but the most important is the nature, behavior. A sea always looks great, beautiful but it is river that quenches your thirst.
Sometime, a small people with small income live happily rather than a family with high income. I also read about the person whose income is high enough but living a poor life.
It is the identity of a person how he/she treats others. All great men or women are great human being. First, we all are human being, and then we are rich and poor. Its nature which make us respectable, if you have both then you are admirable.
“ Resolve to be tender with young, compassionate with aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and wrong. Because some times in our life we would have been all of these ourselves.”
- Llyod Shearer- 1986.
We meet different people throughout of our life. I met different people as I moved from small town to mediocre town to metro city, came across people of different mentality, culture, their idea towards life, towards others, and experienced a lot of things and willing to see more. I noticed one thing, very unusual and my mind brimmed with amazement. I was surprised with some people’s behaviour and their idea. People make pre-conception about you and look for an impertinent questions like from where do you live? Which brand’s cloth you wear? Whether you have car or not? If you have, then which company? Moreover, then categorised you in their bizarre defined group and behave accordingly. If you are affluent, drive a nice car, they will talk to you nicely, flatter you, and invite you in every party. Concerning the area of girl, Most of the girl, beautiful or good looking use this as a weapon, irrespective of character, mentality come closer to you, expect you to pay money everywhere, an expansive gift. If you belong to middle class family, the people make a distance from you, try to avoid you, ignore you. Once, I came to know about a girl who ditched her boyfriend because she knew that he is not affluent irrespective how nice he is. How cheap they are who pretends this. This is sheer idiocy and shows a total lack of self esteem. I, often heard,’ hey look, ‘he wears LEE jeans, he must be rich. Even after this, they say, ‘I belong to rich family, live in advanced society and modern mentality. They don’t they are the real poor people. Most of our societies are wrapped with these non sensual things and make a stupid way to judge the people, which show nothing except lack of self esteem. Apart from this, I even met persons with full of self esteem. I met a person who is affluent but never show and is a better person. I admire such person.
People often proud the things, which are temporary. Men over his wealth and girls over her beauty. Surprisingly, both are not ever lasting. Beauty lasts till age of 35 and nothing can be said about the fickle money.
Let me give an example, very common example. In our society, the girl’s parents look for a rich and good natured bridegroom. Rich because so that their daughter could live a comfortable life, good natured because their daughter could live a happy and purposeful life. For a moment think of reversal of this, if a person is not good nature. What will happen? After few months, or a two three year, relationship became burden, full of fights, shouting and results into divorce. Here, money couldn’t do anything. What mattered is the nature, a good person.
According to me, an affluent person with zero moral and social values is equal to big ZERO.
I never say money is not important but the most important is the nature, behavior. A sea always looks great, beautiful but it is river that quenches your thirst.
Sometime, a small people with small income live happily rather than a family with high income. I also read about the person whose income is high enough but living a poor life.
It is the identity of a person how he/she treats others. All great men or women are great human being. First, we all are human being, and then we are rich and poor. Its nature which make us respectable, if you have both then you are admirable.
“ Resolve to be tender with young, compassionate with aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and wrong. Because some times in our life we would have been all of these ourselves.”
- Llyod Shearer- 1986.
Monday, March 8, 2010
COURTSEY AND MANNERS GO HAND IN HAND
Last night, I phoned my friend, he said, ‘I am busy now. I will call when I will be free.’ On being asked what he is doing, he said, ‘I am watching a movie. And he said that he will message me after two hours.’ I said, ‘sure?’ he said, ‘sure.’ However, I have not got a call or message till writing this blog.
One more incidence. People, often come on g talk to be in touch with each other. One day, I was also online as usual, as I like to chat with my friends, old friends. I wrote to a friend, his is in IIT, ‘ hi ’. And he replied ‘I am busy.’ I replied, ‘okay, take care. Bye.’ He did same 2 -3 times, with same reply, busy. I thought he don’t want to talk to me. He uses to be online most of time. After few day, when I was chatting with another friends, he said the same about him. Moreover, I could manage a smile only.
People often pretend to be busy, and most times for showing off. People should know, in fact they know, no one is too busy or too big to show courtesy. In reality, most of them are busy in what, either in gossiping or watching movies. If you are busy, say him/ her, I am busy and call him/ her after finishing your work. But most of them they do not do this. But even after this, they want to be respected and say you later, hey you are coming busy these days. How cheap they are?
Let me give an example. We often, go to restaurant. Waiter comes, slides plates on the table, and serves food rudely. We finish the food, no matter how much food is delicious but you are still annoyed. Why? Because waiter behaved very rudely. In addition, you felt bad. Even our other friend say, ‘ no one will give him the tip as he did not serve well.’ Now think over it. You ate in a a good restaurant of city, but it don’t matter, what matter is the waiter behavior. Apply this over your life. for a very good personality, it is not necessary whether you are from IIT , NIT or some mediocre college because when you go anywhere and meet the people, you aren’t holding your degree tag in your hand, or it is not written on your forehead. What matters is your behavior. How do you response when a person come and talk to you? Many talented and people have destroyed their success because they lack courtesy and manners. Courtesy and manners makes you cultured.
“Rudeness is the weak man’s imitations of strength’ Eric Hoffer.
All we want is to be respected. In addition, for that we have to give respect to others. We should practice courtesy. Courtesy can be a ‘warm smile’ and ‘thank you’. It is small investment but payoff big. You might not know but it creates others person self worth.
I came across who punch vulgar joke upon you and when you get hurt, they say, you are my friends and don’t take seriously and it is mere a joke.
‘ When someone blushes with embarrassment , when someone carries away an ache, when something sacred is made to common, when someone’s weakness provides the laughter, when profanity is required to make it funny, when a child is brought to tears or when everyone can’t join in the laughter , it’s poor joke’ Cliff Thomas.
Remember, you fun may kill others feeling. We all often see, small kids throw stone on Frogs for fun, but your fun may take his life. This is not fun for Frogs.
I, practice courtesy as much possible as I can. Some my friend say me, I am boring. I don’t care and i know courteous person always respected, not here, but everywhere else.
Suppose a person talks rudely. What you do? You stop talking. You don’t care for him. Lose respect for him/her. Now, when you talk to people rudely and are discourteous to others. What could you expect? You might expect an amiable behavior. Ask yourself,how? You are closing door by yourself. Now the same the people feel about you.
Remember, being courteous will breed courteous in return. In addition, courteous and mannered person are always respected.
One more incidence. People, often come on g talk to be in touch with each other. One day, I was also online as usual, as I like to chat with my friends, old friends. I wrote to a friend, his is in IIT, ‘ hi ’. And he replied ‘I am busy.’ I replied, ‘okay, take care. Bye.’ He did same 2 -3 times, with same reply, busy. I thought he don’t want to talk to me. He uses to be online most of time. After few day, when I was chatting with another friends, he said the same about him. Moreover, I could manage a smile only.
People often pretend to be busy, and most times for showing off. People should know, in fact they know, no one is too busy or too big to show courtesy. In reality, most of them are busy in what, either in gossiping or watching movies. If you are busy, say him/ her, I am busy and call him/ her after finishing your work. But most of them they do not do this. But even after this, they want to be respected and say you later, hey you are coming busy these days. How cheap they are?
Let me give an example. We often, go to restaurant. Waiter comes, slides plates on the table, and serves food rudely. We finish the food, no matter how much food is delicious but you are still annoyed. Why? Because waiter behaved very rudely. In addition, you felt bad. Even our other friend say, ‘ no one will give him the tip as he did not serve well.’ Now think over it. You ate in a a good restaurant of city, but it don’t matter, what matter is the waiter behavior. Apply this over your life. for a very good personality, it is not necessary whether you are from IIT , NIT or some mediocre college because when you go anywhere and meet the people, you aren’t holding your degree tag in your hand, or it is not written on your forehead. What matters is your behavior. How do you response when a person come and talk to you? Many talented and people have destroyed their success because they lack courtesy and manners. Courtesy and manners makes you cultured.
“Rudeness is the weak man’s imitations of strength’ Eric Hoffer.
All we want is to be respected. In addition, for that we have to give respect to others. We should practice courtesy. Courtesy can be a ‘warm smile’ and ‘thank you’. It is small investment but payoff big. You might not know but it creates others person self worth.
I came across who punch vulgar joke upon you and when you get hurt, they say, you are my friends and don’t take seriously and it is mere a joke.
‘ When someone blushes with embarrassment , when someone carries away an ache, when something sacred is made to common, when someone’s weakness provides the laughter, when profanity is required to make it funny, when a child is brought to tears or when everyone can’t join in the laughter , it’s poor joke’ Cliff Thomas.
Remember, you fun may kill others feeling. We all often see, small kids throw stone on Frogs for fun, but your fun may take his life. This is not fun for Frogs.
I, practice courtesy as much possible as I can. Some my friend say me, I am boring. I don’t care and i know courteous person always respected, not here, but everywhere else.
Suppose a person talks rudely. What you do? You stop talking. You don’t care for him. Lose respect for him/her. Now, when you talk to people rudely and are discourteous to others. What could you expect? You might expect an amiable behavior. Ask yourself,how? You are closing door by yourself. Now the same the people feel about you.
Remember, being courteous will breed courteous in return. In addition, courteous and mannered person are always respected.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
SACHIN'S SUMMIT
“ If the cricket is a religion , then Sachin Tendulkar is the god”
Brian Lara.
great men never speak; they come and leave their marks for others to follow.
Captain Roop Singh stadium, on 24th February 2010, witnessed the real avatar of the god, in form of Sachin Tendulkar. Head raised, thanking one god to other, is significant at many levels. His maestro double century, in 2692 one day internationals held so far, prompt us to examine the contour of real greatness. spectators stood in ovation for the greatest player of cricket. Tendulkar turns 37 in coming April, 24th April, a long age when eyesight starts fading and reflexes starts slowing, exploded the myths of ageing to sportsperson and has shown again the longevity in any field is the key to success; as his double century comes in his 21st years of international career to achieve this feat of will, waited for 13 years to break the record of Saeed Anwar of 194, sets off an example of patience.
“ We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit”
said Aristotle.
It is a habit shown by few sportsmen including Sachin Tendulkar. 442 one day internationals, and still he plays a match as his first match and every shot are racing against each other to be the most memorable one. Great balance on the field, separates him and keeps him on top of all others. At the age of 37, he is playing safer game, without ego, but every often reprising , with rousing intuitive style of his younger age. The last 12 months have seen more of the better- ten centuries , six in test cricket and four in one day internationals( three scores over 150). He has already 93 centuries , and the days are not behind to achieve the century of centuries, will come by the end of this year if he progresses at the same pace. Every record appears dwarf in front of such giant personality. No record has been untouched by this great. These days Tendulkar, is often asked what motivates him that he has achieved every batting records. His answer has always the same: he loves the game. It is the simple , unaffected love that allows him to adorn cricket and enthroned king of cricket, apparently.
Brian Lara.
great men never speak; they come and leave their marks for others to follow.
Captain Roop Singh stadium, on 24th February 2010, witnessed the real avatar of the god, in form of Sachin Tendulkar. Head raised, thanking one god to other, is significant at many levels. His maestro double century, in 2692 one day internationals held so far, prompt us to examine the contour of real greatness. spectators stood in ovation for the greatest player of cricket. Tendulkar turns 37 in coming April, 24th April, a long age when eyesight starts fading and reflexes starts slowing, exploded the myths of ageing to sportsperson and has shown again the longevity in any field is the key to success; as his double century comes in his 21st years of international career to achieve this feat of will, waited for 13 years to break the record of Saeed Anwar of 194, sets off an example of patience.
“ We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit”
said Aristotle.
It is a habit shown by few sportsmen including Sachin Tendulkar. 442 one day internationals, and still he plays a match as his first match and every shot are racing against each other to be the most memorable one. Great balance on the field, separates him and keeps him on top of all others. At the age of 37, he is playing safer game, without ego, but every often reprising , with rousing intuitive style of his younger age. The last 12 months have seen more of the better- ten centuries , six in test cricket and four in one day internationals( three scores over 150). He has already 93 centuries , and the days are not behind to achieve the century of centuries, will come by the end of this year if he progresses at the same pace. Every record appears dwarf in front of such giant personality. No record has been untouched by this great. These days Tendulkar, is often asked what motivates him that he has achieved every batting records. His answer has always the same: he loves the game. It is the simple , unaffected love that allows him to adorn cricket and enthroned king of cricket, apparently.
Monday, February 15, 2010
HUMANITY COMES BEFORE RELIGION. HATS OFF TO THE KARAN JOHAR FOR SUCH A NICE MOVIE' MY NAME IS KHAN'
I am writing, this blog, after watching ‘My Name is Khan’. Last night, I saw the most awaited movie of this year, released two days before valentine day, ‘My Name is Khan’ and in the end , the only word uttered was ‘ brilliant’ , sincerely brilliant in all respects. Hands started clapping.
After the bizarre words war and great tussle between SRK and Thakereys, the movie got screened in the various parts of world. In spite of Thakereys protest, which resulted into refusal by some theaters in Mumbai and Pune, it got released in the various parts of India too. The response was huge from the overseas and from the various parts of India, collection was 7.2 crore on very first day in India. This movie is going to be screened in Berlin film festival and ticket got sold out only in five minutes, each tickets costs 1000 Euros ( INR 60000). People were standing in the queue to get the ticket. Applause to the German public. Really, SRK has become beats of billion hearts all over the world, only superstar internationally acclaimed and icons of youths.
According to me, ‘ My Name is Khan’ is indubitably one of the most meaningful movies of this decade, rolled out from the bollywood mills. This movie is produced by 20th century fox; one of the largest production companies of USA, the recent one is AVATAR. The ‘ K ’ factor- 'Karan Johar' and ‘Khan’, simply rocked this movie. Karan Johar, breaking the tag of family drama storyteller, scintillates the story and successfully narrated the script so beautifully that it synthesized my veins when i was watching. His narration through a protagonist suffering from Asperger's Syndrome is a master stroke. Shah Rukh Khan and Kajol, very famous and most successful pair of Bollywood simply sparked and cannot be forgetten for a long time and the people will be carrying them out till the end, may be out of theater. Zahina Wahab , justified with her role, playing unforgettable role of mother, completely secular. This movie, ‘ My Name is Khan’ is all about love life which get disturbed after 9/11, it is not about the terrorism; to prove that he is khan and he is not the terrorist. And he proves.
The highest point of this movie is the performance. Shah Rukh Khan is stupendous, marking another height of acting. He never loses grip on his character, despite the mannerism, the awkwardly body language and his distinct speech style, undoubtbly it towers his best act, leaving his SWADES act. Kajol looks beautiful and mesmerising. Zahina wahab played splendidly the role of a mother. Kids are fantastic. Shankar Ehsaan Loy track gives soul to the film, uplifting with ‘Noor E Jahan’ song. Karan johar simply sparkled with his direction, forgetting the movie is meant to entertain unlike before, especially in India and narrates the story with great style of felicity.
As I already wrote that ‘ My Name is Khan ‘ is indubitably one of the meaningful movies rolled out of the Bollywood, this movies painted on the canvas of 9/11, post 9/11, racial abuse, hurricane Katrina. The movie never loses its grip anywhere. The best part it was wrapped with humanity and gave an inarticulate message that the world is divided into good and bad. No other difference matters. This film is brimming with some heart rendered scenes which may roll down your tears. The only lesson of good and bad which mumbling, fumbling, awkward inept hero carry throughout the movie and gives a different perspective to see the world, people and its problems. A huge applause to KJo teams, especially Shah Rukh Khan, who rocked this movie. GO AND WATCH IT.
I give 4.5 /5.
After the bizarre words war and great tussle between SRK and Thakereys, the movie got screened in the various parts of world. In spite of Thakereys protest, which resulted into refusal by some theaters in Mumbai and Pune, it got released in the various parts of India too. The response was huge from the overseas and from the various parts of India, collection was 7.2 crore on very first day in India. This movie is going to be screened in Berlin film festival and ticket got sold out only in five minutes, each tickets costs 1000 Euros ( INR 60000). People were standing in the queue to get the ticket. Applause to the German public. Really, SRK has become beats of billion hearts all over the world, only superstar internationally acclaimed and icons of youths.
According to me, ‘ My Name is Khan’ is indubitably one of the most meaningful movies of this decade, rolled out from the bollywood mills. This movie is produced by 20th century fox; one of the largest production companies of USA, the recent one is AVATAR. The ‘ K ’ factor- 'Karan Johar' and ‘Khan’, simply rocked this movie. Karan Johar, breaking the tag of family drama storyteller, scintillates the story and successfully narrated the script so beautifully that it synthesized my veins when i was watching. His narration through a protagonist suffering from Asperger's Syndrome is a master stroke. Shah Rukh Khan and Kajol, very famous and most successful pair of Bollywood simply sparked and cannot be forgetten for a long time and the people will be carrying them out till the end, may be out of theater. Zahina Wahab , justified with her role, playing unforgettable role of mother, completely secular. This movie, ‘ My Name is Khan’ is all about love life which get disturbed after 9/11, it is not about the terrorism; to prove that he is khan and he is not the terrorist. And he proves.
The highest point of this movie is the performance. Shah Rukh Khan is stupendous, marking another height of acting. He never loses grip on his character, despite the mannerism, the awkwardly body language and his distinct speech style, undoubtbly it towers his best act, leaving his SWADES act. Kajol looks beautiful and mesmerising. Zahina wahab played splendidly the role of a mother. Kids are fantastic. Shankar Ehsaan Loy track gives soul to the film, uplifting with ‘Noor E Jahan’ song. Karan johar simply sparkled with his direction, forgetting the movie is meant to entertain unlike before, especially in India and narrates the story with great style of felicity.
As I already wrote that ‘ My Name is Khan ‘ is indubitably one of the meaningful movies rolled out of the Bollywood, this movies painted on the canvas of 9/11, post 9/11, racial abuse, hurricane Katrina. The movie never loses its grip anywhere. The best part it was wrapped with humanity and gave an inarticulate message that the world is divided into good and bad. No other difference matters. This film is brimming with some heart rendered scenes which may roll down your tears. The only lesson of good and bad which mumbling, fumbling, awkward inept hero carry throughout the movie and gives a different perspective to see the world, people and its problems. A huge applause to KJo teams, especially Shah Rukh Khan, who rocked this movie. GO AND WATCH IT.
I give 4.5 /5.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
EVERY SUCCESS STORY IS ALSO A STORY OF GREAT FAILURE
“ History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heart- breaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats” B. C. Forbes once said.
Success is the destination and failure is the highway to the success. If you want to be successful, you have to go on a long drive of failure. Every winner has a story of failure because they dared to fail. “ the people who never fail are those who never try” this quote proves the fallacy of term ‘ overnight success.’
Let me share a famous story life history with you.This was a man who failed in business at the age of 21; was defeated in a legislative race at the age 22; failed again in business at age 24; had his sweetheart die when he was 26; had a nervous breakdown at age 27; lost a congressional race at age of 34; lost a senatorial race at age 45; failed in an effort to become vice president at 47; lost a senatorial race at 49; and was elected president of the united sates at age of 52. This man was Abraham Inchon. Is it a failure? He could quit , but defeat was a detour to him , not an end.
J.paul getty once said “ a man may fail many times, but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else” a powerful concept and secret of successful people.
The only difference between successful person and others is – the perseverance. A meaning full word. The difference is neither lack of strength nor they are ‘lucky’, negative thinker’s word. One of good examples is of Beethoven. He was told that he has not the talent for music, but he gave some of the best music to the world.
They all showed to the world one thing- if you believe in yourself sincerely, irrespective of what world says to you, just keep doing, and you will get what you want.
People who face obstacles are more secure than who have not. We are living in a world with lots of problems and we have to face them. An English proverb “ A smooth sea cannot make a good sailor” This justifies all. Winners do everything in spite of problem, not in the absence of problems. One examples is of lance Armstrong, after fighting against incurable cancer, won tour de France , world cycle championship. It isn’t money, which made them valuable but it is the courage, their effort and the perseverance, made them great and set offs an examples for the world.we should learn a lesson from them as we get discouraged mere by a less marks in examination. When I get discouraged, i used to read their life history and my veins get imbued with great intensity of positive energy, if they can do, in spite of this , why cannot i ?’
Life was not smooth, is not smooth and will not be smooth. It shows everyone some tough time. And it is the looser who quits not the winners. One good example, Henry ford, the father of automobile industry, had a nervous breakdown at the age of 40 , but he did not quit. Another example.
On 15 august 1992, Mani Ratnam’s movie ROJA was released. The movie was a hit , but there was something else that rocked the film. It was the music rendered by a shy, quiet 25 year old debutante, A. R . Rahman , who became household name overnight – so the world thought. What escaped notice that this young lad had put in, when his father unexpectedly passed away leaving nine year old to take care of his mother and sister. He showed that he is impervious to this. I,myself is a fervent admirer of them.
“ If you want to succeed , double your failure rate” once IBM head said. Because success teaches a little to us, IT IS THE FAILURE WHICH MAKE YOU THINK.
Success is the destination and failure is the highway to the success. If you want to be successful, you have to go on a long drive of failure. Every winner has a story of failure because they dared to fail. “ the people who never fail are those who never try” this quote proves the fallacy of term ‘ overnight success.’
Let me share a famous story life history with you.This was a man who failed in business at the age of 21; was defeated in a legislative race at the age 22; failed again in business at age 24; had his sweetheart die when he was 26; had a nervous breakdown at age 27; lost a congressional race at age of 34; lost a senatorial race at age 45; failed in an effort to become vice president at 47; lost a senatorial race at 49; and was elected president of the united sates at age of 52. This man was Abraham Inchon. Is it a failure? He could quit , but defeat was a detour to him , not an end.
J.paul getty once said “ a man may fail many times, but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else” a powerful concept and secret of successful people.
The only difference between successful person and others is – the perseverance. A meaning full word. The difference is neither lack of strength nor they are ‘lucky’, negative thinker’s word. One of good examples is of Beethoven. He was told that he has not the talent for music, but he gave some of the best music to the world.
They all showed to the world one thing- if you believe in yourself sincerely, irrespective of what world says to you, just keep doing, and you will get what you want.
People who face obstacles are more secure than who have not. We are living in a world with lots of problems and we have to face them. An English proverb “ A smooth sea cannot make a good sailor” This justifies all. Winners do everything in spite of problem, not in the absence of problems. One examples is of lance Armstrong, after fighting against incurable cancer, won tour de France , world cycle championship. It isn’t money, which made them valuable but it is the courage, their effort and the perseverance, made them great and set offs an examples for the world.we should learn a lesson from them as we get discouraged mere by a less marks in examination. When I get discouraged, i used to read their life history and my veins get imbued with great intensity of positive energy, if they can do, in spite of this , why cannot i ?’
Life was not smooth, is not smooth and will not be smooth. It shows everyone some tough time. And it is the looser who quits not the winners. One good example, Henry ford, the father of automobile industry, had a nervous breakdown at the age of 40 , but he did not quit. Another example.
On 15 august 1992, Mani Ratnam’s movie ROJA was released. The movie was a hit , but there was something else that rocked the film. It was the music rendered by a shy, quiet 25 year old debutante, A. R . Rahman , who became household name overnight – so the world thought. What escaped notice that this young lad had put in, when his father unexpectedly passed away leaving nine year old to take care of his mother and sister. He showed that he is impervious to this. I,myself is a fervent admirer of them.
“ If you want to succeed , double your failure rate” once IBM head said. Because success teaches a little to us, IT IS THE FAILURE WHICH MAKE YOU THINK.
Saturday, February 6, 2010
TIME TO STOP THIS HOOLIGANISM
We are learning from our childhood that india is the the land of diversity, and we proud of its ‘diversity in unity ’ and India is the largest democratic country in this world. Has this phrase lost its value now a days? These phrases, in my opinion, have lost its sheen and mere for a general knowledge.
Our country has world’s largest democracy and democracy means, in the opinion of Abraham Inchon , 'of the people, by the people and for the people.’ But recent incidence of cynic activity by few people is proving this wrong. Has india changed the meaning of democracy or democracy has lost its meaning? Answers, none know. If we consider the original meaning of democracy, it means anybody has rights to speak, to live throughout the country. Then, what is this shameful act going on by shiv sainiks ? Who are they to stop people living in Mumbai? Some say they are working for the welfare for Mumabikar. If so, where were they at the time of condemnable attack on taj when fear could be easily seen in the people’s eyes? Considering this reference, sena’s bangles rattle still echoing in my ears. If the cause of shiv sainiks are really so important, then they should have been the government of maharastra, feeding to hungry and providing job to the unemployed. But in this case, their heart beats don’t seem as aggressively.
Weak people are always get targeted. And exactly the same sena is doing. They are targeting the people from north india, blaming they are cutting their jobs. If so, does it mean that marathis can not compete for their jobs? Mumbai was not built in a day. It was built by Indian ,by their hard work and what we see it today and meant to live up by all Indian.
When SRK came forward and made a statement ‘ Mumbai for all’. Sena slammed this and declared him a traitor, and their declaration, was illogical ‘ everyone should do their own work rather than commenting on everything’ implying SRK should keep acting instead speaking on these issue. What a joke? They have right to say anything but others have not rights to say a thing. Oh god, nothing can be more illogical than this. Unbelievable.
Such remarks are really shameful. It very sad that despite seeing that someone has taken a brave stance and decided to stand up to hooliganism, no one was ready to speak in his favour! It is sad to see that few people are grabbing the power , which belongs to intellectuals and state also.
I want to challenge the very concept of Bombay belonging to Marathi manoos – not just from the perspective of India being a democracy and, but even from the perspective of history. Bombay, till 1960, combined Gujarat and Maharashtra till the two states were separated. What then came to be known as Bombay – that is, today’s Mumbai – was built literally by the Gujaratis and the Parsis, with the Marathi manoos playing a much lesser role. Mumbai means ‘ the city of dream’ and everyone has right to come and chase their dream.
It is time to stand up against this to end hooliganism. It is shameful to see that a few people are deciding the fate of Mumbai, the backbone of Indian industry, run by fifty percent non marathis.
The time has come to make Mumbai union territory instead of dividing the city on the basis of language and regionalism. The time has come for Mumbai to acquire the shape of their own character, free from these nonsense reasons. The character , where every Indian is safe and could go to fulfil their dreams.
It is time for marathis to come up and show their love and affections that they get from every Indian, just for the sake for india and its democracy. Applause to Sachin and Lataji. A few can not decide the fate of Mumbai. It belongs to us, belongs to all INDIAN.
Our country has world’s largest democracy and democracy means, in the opinion of Abraham Inchon , 'of the people, by the people and for the people.’ But recent incidence of cynic activity by few people is proving this wrong. Has india changed the meaning of democracy or democracy has lost its meaning? Answers, none know. If we consider the original meaning of democracy, it means anybody has rights to speak, to live throughout the country. Then, what is this shameful act going on by shiv sainiks ? Who are they to stop people living in Mumbai? Some say they are working for the welfare for Mumabikar. If so, where were they at the time of condemnable attack on taj when fear could be easily seen in the people’s eyes? Considering this reference, sena’s bangles rattle still echoing in my ears. If the cause of shiv sainiks are really so important, then they should have been the government of maharastra, feeding to hungry and providing job to the unemployed. But in this case, their heart beats don’t seem as aggressively.
Weak people are always get targeted. And exactly the same sena is doing. They are targeting the people from north india, blaming they are cutting their jobs. If so, does it mean that marathis can not compete for their jobs? Mumbai was not built in a day. It was built by Indian ,by their hard work and what we see it today and meant to live up by all Indian.
When SRK came forward and made a statement ‘ Mumbai for all’. Sena slammed this and declared him a traitor, and their declaration, was illogical ‘ everyone should do their own work rather than commenting on everything’ implying SRK should keep acting instead speaking on these issue. What a joke? They have right to say anything but others have not rights to say a thing. Oh god, nothing can be more illogical than this. Unbelievable.
Such remarks are really shameful. It very sad that despite seeing that someone has taken a brave stance and decided to stand up to hooliganism, no one was ready to speak in his favour! It is sad to see that few people are grabbing the power , which belongs to intellectuals and state also.
I want to challenge the very concept of Bombay belonging to Marathi manoos – not just from the perspective of India being a democracy and, but even from the perspective of history. Bombay, till 1960, combined Gujarat and Maharashtra till the two states were separated. What then came to be known as Bombay – that is, today’s Mumbai – was built literally by the Gujaratis and the Parsis, with the Marathi manoos playing a much lesser role. Mumbai means ‘ the city of dream’ and everyone has right to come and chase their dream.
It is time to stand up against this to end hooliganism. It is shameful to see that a few people are deciding the fate of Mumbai, the backbone of Indian industry, run by fifty percent non marathis.
The time has come to make Mumbai union territory instead of dividing the city on the basis of language and regionalism. The time has come for Mumbai to acquire the shape of their own character, free from these nonsense reasons. The character , where every Indian is safe and could go to fulfil their dreams.
It is time for marathis to come up and show their love and affections that they get from every Indian, just for the sake for india and its democracy. Applause to Sachin and Lataji. A few can not decide the fate of Mumbai. It belongs to us, belongs to all INDIAN.
Saturday, January 30, 2010
" COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS , NOT YOUR TROUBLES"
“ I cursed up the fact that i had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet” a Persian proverb. A real idea conveying a great meaning to life and confidence.This line, when you and i imagine, are left with a wave of shiver, make you to freeze and force you to think.We people,often get easily trapped and focus on what we don’t have and start cursing life rather than being grateful to what we do have. I promise you that you are not noticing the things on which you should be grateful. We all have life full of blessings.
Indeed, we are lucky. Let me start with a story, a story of mine. I noticed myself and started collecting my blessings and I am grateful for all. Earlier, I easily got trapped myself in things that I don’t have. I cursed up my life, when I saw that other’s have nice car, nice lifestyle. Then I changed my perspective towards my life, way of viewing other’s life. And I find myself luckier. I am grateful to my parents who gave such nice life, always ready to fulfill my dreams at any cost. I am grateful to a friend, whom I really admire, who is a part of my sorrow and happiness, who always keep motivating me, when frustrations start clouding over me and I feel sad. I am grateful to my roommate , who always help me in studying by keeping disturbance outside of room. I am thankful to all. Now, I never think that I don’t have car, I don’t have a nice house. Why should I? I don’t have them right now but I will have. That’s my attitude and we all should have the same.
Last night, millions of children went to sleep hungry. People are dying due to disease and natural disaster. Think about those children who lost their parents, think about the parents who lost their children whom they love most than their life. Think of babies who die before coming to life. Think over it. Feel the life. Don’t understand, FEEL it. And You will find yourself luckier. I came through a news about a newly born baby,born without a face, just two eyes only and a mouth. and we worry about traffic being heavy on the way to work.
Never think of your troubles. It leads nothing except frustration and disappointment. For some, it may be a cause for their motivation but there numbers are few. It will decrease your efficiency. Look towards other’s problem and then you will know how small yours problems are. It doesn’t mean that you should be satisfied with your life. Always think of great achievers and try yourself to place next to them but keep an eye over other’s problems so that your troubles never be obstacles for you.
Here, a word to think – perspective. Change your perspective towards life, people. Travel to different cities, meet most of different people, know about them. Take a look around you and you will start recollecting your blessings and make you realize how fortunate you are and your troubles will be dwarfed in front of them. Its a human nature to appreciate the things until it get lost because LOST THINGS ALWAYS VALUED MOST.
Indeed, we are lucky. Let me start with a story, a story of mine. I noticed myself and started collecting my blessings and I am grateful for all. Earlier, I easily got trapped myself in things that I don’t have. I cursed up my life, when I saw that other’s have nice car, nice lifestyle. Then I changed my perspective towards my life, way of viewing other’s life. And I find myself luckier. I am grateful to my parents who gave such nice life, always ready to fulfill my dreams at any cost. I am grateful to a friend, whom I really admire, who is a part of my sorrow and happiness, who always keep motivating me, when frustrations start clouding over me and I feel sad. I am grateful to my roommate , who always help me in studying by keeping disturbance outside of room. I am thankful to all. Now, I never think that I don’t have car, I don’t have a nice house. Why should I? I don’t have them right now but I will have. That’s my attitude and we all should have the same.
Last night, millions of children went to sleep hungry. People are dying due to disease and natural disaster. Think about those children who lost their parents, think about the parents who lost their children whom they love most than their life. Think of babies who die before coming to life. Think over it. Feel the life. Don’t understand, FEEL it. And You will find yourself luckier. I came through a news about a newly born baby,born without a face, just two eyes only and a mouth. and we worry about traffic being heavy on the way to work.
Never think of your troubles. It leads nothing except frustration and disappointment. For some, it may be a cause for their motivation but there numbers are few. It will decrease your efficiency. Look towards other’s problem and then you will know how small yours problems are. It doesn’t mean that you should be satisfied with your life. Always think of great achievers and try yourself to place next to them but keep an eye over other’s problems so that your troubles never be obstacles for you.
Here, a word to think – perspective. Change your perspective towards life, people. Travel to different cities, meet most of different people, know about them. Take a look around you and you will start recollecting your blessings and make you realize how fortunate you are and your troubles will be dwarfed in front of them. Its a human nature to appreciate the things until it get lost because LOST THINGS ALWAYS VALUED MOST.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
DISCOVER THE GENIUS IN YOU
You are a genius , in your own way. The only thing you need is to know , is what that unique quality is. Let me again start this with a story, a true incident.This a story of a boy, a very good friend of mine. I would not disclose his name. When he was in 12th standard, every friend of his thought that he would not succeed in the jee exam or will get a low ranks in other competitive examinations. And exactly same thing happened. he could not qualify for any one of the examinations. With positive attitude and confidence , he moved and prepared for another year for the examination. The results came and now he is in IIT, dream of every engineering aspirants. he did not try to focus on any other activities and other competitive examination like nift etc, except IIT. He focused on his studies. He improved daily, turned scars into stars and believed on himself. He brought out what nature gave him and ran over that formula and polished it with relentless devotion. Now , everyone calls him a genius. For many people , it might look ridiculous because they will say that there are 4500 students qualify every year, it got increased now but the noticing part that the way he brought out his genius is exceptionally well. GREAT!!! BRILLIANT. I , myself ,am a great admirer of him.
Know what you can excel at - your genius. Focus on it, polish it. Days turns into weeks, weeks into months and months into years and you will start operating in the world of competence and people around you will start calling you genius.
According of Robin Sharma, ceo of Sharma Leadership International , and one of the top coaches of world, said that focus plus daily improvement plus time is equal to genius. Understand it deeply and your life will not be same again. A BIG IDEA.
Micheal Jordon , one of the greatest of basketball player is a genius.Some people say he has an extraordinary talent. If so, then he should have been the greatest in two or three sports.NO,he focused on what the nature gave him and ran over that formula. Practiced it relentlessly. He did not try to focus on five different games. He did not scatter. He is what we see today.
Let me put another example,Thomas Alwa Edison, the great inventor of all time. He registered 1093 stunning patents over his life.he invented bulb as well as phonograph.He did not try to be a great merchant or a great poet. He focused only on his inventions.
People often use the word " LUCKY " for the greatest ones. Henry ford once said, " the harder you work, the luckier you will be" A REAL POINT.
Discover your genius and unearth it and develop it.Work with a relentless effort and devotion and polish it.You might be a good orator, you might be a good guitarist, a good painter.Know the area where you can excel at and develop it. Within three to five years, people will start noticing you , praising you and start calling you a GENIUS. focus plus daily improvement plus time is GENIUS.
Know what you can excel at - your genius. Focus on it, polish it. Days turns into weeks, weeks into months and months into years and you will start operating in the world of competence and people around you will start calling you genius.
According of Robin Sharma, ceo of Sharma Leadership International , and one of the top coaches of world, said that focus plus daily improvement plus time is equal to genius. Understand it deeply and your life will not be same again. A BIG IDEA.
Micheal Jordon , one of the greatest of basketball player is a genius.Some people say he has an extraordinary talent. If so, then he should have been the greatest in two or three sports.NO,he focused on what the nature gave him and ran over that formula. Practiced it relentlessly. He did not try to focus on five different games. He did not scatter. He is what we see today.
Let me put another example,Thomas Alwa Edison, the great inventor of all time. He registered 1093 stunning patents over his life.he invented bulb as well as phonograph.He did not try to be a great merchant or a great poet. He focused only on his inventions.
People often use the word " LUCKY " for the greatest ones. Henry ford once said, " the harder you work, the luckier you will be" A REAL POINT.
Discover your genius and unearth it and develop it.Work with a relentless effort and devotion and polish it.You might be a good orator, you might be a good guitarist, a good painter.Know the area where you can excel at and develop it. Within three to five years, people will start noticing you , praising you and start calling you a GENIUS. focus plus daily improvement plus time is GENIUS.
Saturday, January 16, 2010
A THOUSAND MILES JOURNEY BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP
" a thousand miles journey begins with a single step " a powerful concept.Let me start this with a story , a story about pablo picasso , the greatest painter of all time. One day a woman found him in the market and pulled out a piece of paper. " Mr. picasso," she said excitedly, ' i am a big fan. please, could you draw something for me?" Picasso happily and quickly etched out a piece of art for her, and said ," that will be a million dollars," but Mr. picasso ," the flustered woman replied ,"it only took you 30 seconds to do this." " My good woman," Picasso laughed, " it took me 30 years to do that masterpiece." Brilliant. Every dream starts small. When you take a step towards it, it means you are strolling towards your goal. Each time you move, you move closer to your aim. You can not be on the top of mountain by jumping. you have to move step by step and you will be on the top of mountain.While moving step by step, you will face obstacles,do not paid heed towards them. move slowly, firmly, and strongly.Feet should be on earth, eyes should be on the peak as "arjuna's eyes were focused only on the bird's eyes." the winners always stands alone. when they start journey, they are accompained by many peoples but when winners reached the top , he finds himself alone.For example, Richard Branson, chairman of virgin group, began with his little record shop, Steve jobs, ceo of apple inc., started apple out of his garage, Robin sharma, ceo of sharma leadership international,started with a few cases of self published book that he had printed in kinko's copy shop and 23 peoples were in his first seminar out of which 21 were his own family members.The person who fly in the sky, like Mandela, Gandhi, Steve jobs, Bill gates ...., they do not born with wings.What can be concluded is that they started their dreams small, moved firmly and reached on the top.Every dream starts small but you have to start TODAY.
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