This time, I made curry, little bit salty, spicy, and bitter to realize the truth, which we, most of youth is carrying, fortunately, or unfortunately, I don’t know. Some, who like to have good curry which I made this time, might sense the bitterness and try to think it twice, thrice…… I promised to my friends to never make such curry but something happened, which made to think and write over this.
It happened to me, few months ago, at that time, I didn’t take it seriously but I again saw this. I don’t know why it always happens with me. I was chatting to a friend, an acquaintance. After some light stuff, I simply asked about her study. As I am always fascinated in every field, whether it is law, medical, fashion or engineering. She is doing law. Ram jeth malani, kapil sibbal are the best lawyer of India, when I was in 10th class, my father told this. I, sometime think about this. What quality good lawyers possess? Nothing can be a good source to know about this other than to ask from a law student. I just asked, ‘so, you might have learn how to turn the table against anyone, or to disapprove a person in front of you? The best quality of lawyer, which differentiates the bad one or good one?’ she said, ‘sanjeev, can’t we talk something normal stuff?’ first I couldn’t understand, what happened? I asked, ‘did I ask something wrong?’ ‘yeah, it is boring. And you are boring me.’ I became silent and couldn’t keep any questions forward after that as I was unable to differentiate the questions into boring or normal?
I observed the same in my college. Not with me always, but someone who are conscious about the recent development in an engineering field and look for a good discussion. Same reply, boring questions. In fact, one of my good friends told me that he had chat with his friend, on asking that his further plan. He found it boring.
Summer holidays started, ended too. I thought to discuss this to my friend, a very good friend, currently in IIT. We used to spend time together talking, discussing, topics covering from movies, politics, sports, even sometimes serious topics too. I knew that he would not find this question boring. A good quality of person to listen and reply in way that you will not feel bad or curse yourself that why did you ask this question? I took other way to ask this. I asked to him, 'when you and your friends are talking, suppose after dinner and some nonsense stuff, whether to make the fun of others or something comedy. Suddenly, you remember that you have to finish an assignment and you get stuck while in program. Even, you have to submit it tomorrow first class. You are seeing that all your friends are busy in talking. But you ask to friend as he knows about subject, what he would say?’ He said, ‘considering this situation …’ I punctuated, ‘let me put two options in front of you. 1) Would he say, ‘what yaar, don’t bore me. Can’t you enjoy? See, someone is making joke, enjoy the life. 2) He will come with you, will solve your problem.’
He said, ‘why would he say the first options? For us, it is never boring to ask a question; in fact it is related to our subject. Sometimes, he might say that he will come later and solve the problem.’
‘Why?’ I asked with curiosity. ‘Why means? We are going to become engineer? If someone starts finding problem in his/her own subject, then what is meaning of studying? What the hell is he/she doing in this college if asking something related to your academics bore him/her. If someone says like this, he/she should be in Arts College. Nothing can be more pathetic than this.’
Exactly, I also want to say the same. Discussing something, related to academics, if bore anyone, it is directly inferred that he/she has no interest in that area. It is the total waste of Indian resource. Such people make speech, India, one day will become super power, richest country, I don’t know their more dialogues. Just think, a country where our youths find their own academics subject boring is going to make such adjectives apt which they used to put, great or super power.
2 comments:
A sanjeev ! good one. Waise Tu thora frustrated lag rha hai. every thing alright na?
@ rishab: Bhai agar har koi ye soch kar khud ko change kar le ki main akela kuchh nahi kar sakta to sachme kuchh nahi hona.Balki agar koi banda system change karna chahta hai and he is immovable to koi na koi uska saath dene zaroor aayega.
not bad ............ but try not to express your frustration ,,,,,,,,, try using third person
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