HUM TUM 2

We can’t live with them and we can’t live without them. The unsolved mystery so far has been gripping us for a long time, for thousands years. The girl, an unsolved enigma. Even scientists are hopeless in this matter. I have a simple question. Scientists have explained the behavior of atom, the smallest particles which we are unable to see but could not able to explain the behavior of a girl. They predicted the behavior of every animal, even of insects. But they have failed in this regard. Why? Are they not so capable? Reason is simple.

Girls reshapes our life, nowadays, they are also deforming our life. We all know the consequences but we maneuver behind them, chase and follow them. We stand hours and hours where we are not supposed to be like below her house, at the end of street of her home, at her tuition classes, if we see them at market luckily, we visit the same place, for a glimpse of her. We stare at her to catch every single smile fluttered across her at her pinkish lips. Even we have annals of every smile and their giggles. But we don’t remember what our mom said to bring some household stuff. Who cares! When they reply with a coquettish smile, we are gone, dreaming starts to an extreme extent. Their phone numbers are on the tongue, even sometimes, it get dialed if we try for home. And college or school attendance gets suddenly increased but when our mothers say to go, we make excuses. Dressing sense according to the girl taste gets changed. If they like funky T- shirts, Jeans..Some of us go to shop and buy lots of garish clothes. If she likes simple, then some of us start wearing plain shirt and pants, not even flare pants. Even hair style gets improved. Some of us even start visiting gent’s beauty parlor, in order to take lead in the race of looking handsome and smart. We start bathing daily, buy lots of different fragrances perfumes, deodorant and powder. Some of us even start using some fairness cream, mostly fair and lovely. I think we contribute more than 50% sell of it. For this sake, at least they should give a little preference to us also in add. Some of us fight for her, if some among us ogle at her girlfriend, however, he hasn’t talked to her once, and without letting her knows and gets hospitalized. A good example of irony. Her birthdays come and some of us buy very costly gift to impress her, to bribe her which might give a ray of hope to accept proposal. We wait impatiently for Valentine’s Day, in a bleak hope, it is belief that girls generally never rejects any proposals as furiously as they do on the others day. Some of us propose them holding a good, fresh, sweet smelling rose in hand and say stammering, ‘ I love you’. Even they don’t know after how much times, they have selected this rose. Some lucky one’s proposal gets accepted. As it seems that America accepts India’s proposal to avoid and forbid the use of nuclear arms. Some unfortunate gets rejected. Some of us try for next options. Nevertheless, scenes and scenarios change.

Drama starts. We have to mug up the birthdays dates, not only of her but dates of every single family members of her, even she has any pet also. Where are you? Come soon in five minutes at city mall. We raced even we are eating, look for a bike or car. Look for money in wallet. I am not feeling sleepy, talk to me. We wash our face, if we feel sleepy, no matter whether it is summer or winter to talk. Why don’t you wear like my friends boyfriends do? Why you don’t drive car like my friend’s boyfriend drive? You are not romantic as my friend’s boyfriends are? We start cladding ourselves in the same way, she expects. Our attire change. We start driving fast. We start reading books, some romantic novel, look for some ladies magazines like meri saheli or vanita to get tips to become romantic as they , sometimes, publish special issue like teenager love or how to make relationship romantic and stronger. After some day, you are not like as you used to be, romantic, simple and sweet. You are changed now. You are not like before, at the time proposing me. You were simple, sweet but now you are totally different. This type of minor fights results into break up. The collection of deodorant, perfume seems laughing at us, making fun of us. Some of us feels down hearted and shatter emotionally. Some of us try for any other relationship.

After looking and experiencing the different perspective, whatever we say, the bottom line is that we cannot live with them and never wish to live without them.

AMAZING REALITY, TRUTH AND YOUTHS

This time, I made curry, little bit salty, spicy, and bitter to realize the truth, which we, most of youth is carrying, fortunately, or unfortunately, I don’t know. Some, who like to have good curry which I made this time, might sense the bitterness and try to think it twice, thrice…… I promised to my friends to never make such curry but something happened, which made to think and write over this.

It happened to me, few months ago, at that time, I didn’t take it seriously but I again saw this. I don’t know why it always happens with me. I was chatting to a friend, an acquaintance. After some light stuff, I simply asked about her study. As I am always fascinated in every field, whether it is law, medical, fashion or engineering. She is doing law. Ram jeth malani, kapil sibbal are the best lawyer of India, when I was in 10th class, my father told this. I, sometime think about this. What quality good lawyers possess? Nothing can be a good source to know about this other than to ask from a law student. I just asked, ‘so, you might have learn how to turn the table against anyone, or to disapprove a person in front of you? The best quality of lawyer, which differentiates the bad one or good one?’ she said, ‘sanjeev, can’t we talk something normal stuff?’ first I couldn’t understand, what happened? I asked, ‘did I ask something wrong?’ ‘yeah, it is boring. And you are boring me.’ I became silent and couldn’t keep any questions forward after that as I was unable to differentiate the questions into boring or normal?

I observed the same in my college. Not with me always, but someone who are conscious about the recent development in an engineering field and look for a good discussion. Same reply, boring questions. In fact, one of my good friends told me that he had chat with his friend, on asking that his further plan. He found it boring.

Summer holidays started, ended too. I thought to discuss this to my friend, a very good friend, currently in IIT. We used to spend time together talking, discussing, topics covering from movies, politics, sports, even sometimes serious topics too. I knew that he would not find this question boring. A good quality of person to listen and reply in way that you will not feel bad or curse yourself that why did you ask this question? I took other way to ask this. I asked to him, 'when you and your friends are talking, suppose after dinner and some nonsense stuff, whether to make the fun of others or something comedy. Suddenly, you remember that you have to finish an assignment and you get stuck while in program. Even, you have to submit it tomorrow first class. You are seeing that all your friends are busy in talking. But you ask to friend as he knows about subject, what he would say?’ He said, ‘considering this situation …’ I punctuated, ‘let me put two options in front of you. 1) Would he say, ‘what yaar, don’t bore me. Can’t you enjoy? See, someone is making joke, enjoy the life. 2) He will come with you, will solve your problem.’

He said, ‘why would he say the first options? For us, it is never boring to ask a question; in fact it is related to our subject. Sometimes, he might say that he will come later and solve the problem.’

‘Why?’ I asked with curiosity. ‘Why means? We are going to become engineer? If someone starts finding problem in his/her own subject, then what is meaning of studying? What the hell is he/she doing in this college if asking something related to your academics bore him/her. If someone says like this, he/she should be in Arts College. Nothing can be more pathetic than this.’

Exactly, I also want to say the same. Discussing something, related to academics, if bore anyone, it is directly inferred that he/she has no interest in that area. It is the total waste of Indian resource. Such people make speech, India, one day will become super power, richest country, I don’t know their more dialogues. Just think, a country where our youths find their own academics subject boring is going to make such adjectives apt which they used to put, great or super power.